"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sportsfan89

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I go visit my first cousin about 4 or 5 times a year. Last time when I went to go stay at his house this summer, I met and started talking to one of his first cousins on the other side of his family. After a few days of talking and hanging out with her, I started to like her. I think I did all the right things I learned from this site in order to attract her. She should have realized that I liked her by the way I acted towards her. But, the problem is that I still dont know if she thinks of me as like a relative or as a good friend. We are not blood relatives. I really like this girl now and I dont know whether I should make a move on her or not cause she also lives a little far away. She gave me her number. I want to keep in touch with her and I know guys usually don't call just to talk. What should I do about her next?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anymore suggestions or comments?
 

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I didnt really plan on liking her. It just sort of happened.
 

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No suggestions or recommendations needed. If you want her, and she ain't blood, and it doesn't creep you out, go for it.

What other people think doesn't matter.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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