"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I go visit my first cousin about 4 or 5 times a year. Last time when I went to go stay at his house this summer, I met and started talking to one of his first cousins on the other side of his family. After a few days of talking and hanging out with her, I started to like her. I think I did all the right things I learned from this site in order to attract her. She should have realized that I liked her by the way I acted towards her. But, the problem is that I still dont know if she thinks of me as like a relative or as a good friend. We are not blood relatives. I really like this girl now and I dont know whether I should make a move on her or not cause she also lives a little far away. She gave me her number. I want to keep in touch with her and I know guys usually don't call just to talk. What should I do about her next?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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anymore suggestions or comments?
 
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I didnt really plan on liking her. It just sort of happened.
 
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No suggestions or recommendations needed. If you want her, and she ain't blood, and it doesn't creep you out, go for it.

What other people think doesn't matter.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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