"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sportsfan89

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I go visit my first cousin about 4 or 5 times a year. Last time when I went to go stay at his house this summer, I met and started talking to one of his first cousins on the other side of his family. After a few days of talking and hanging out with her, I started to like her. I think I did all the right things I learned from this site in order to attract her. She should have realized that I liked her by the way I acted towards her. But, the problem is that I still dont know if she thinks of me as like a relative or as a good friend. We are not blood relatives. I really like this girl now and I dont know whether I should make a move on her or not cause she also lives a little far away. She gave me her number. I want to keep in touch with her and I know guys usually don't call just to talk. What should I do about her next?

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sportsfan89

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anymore suggestions or comments?
 

sportsfan89

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I didnt really plan on liking her. It just sort of happened.
 

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No suggestions or recommendations needed. If you want her, and she ain't blood, and it doesn't creep you out, go for it.

What other people think doesn't matter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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