"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I go visit my first cousin about 4 or 5 times a year. Last time when I went to go stay at his house this summer, I met and started talking to one of his first cousins on the other side of his family. After a few days of talking and hanging out with her, I started to like her. I think I did all the right things I learned from this site in order to attract her. She should have realized that I liked her by the way I acted towards her. But, the problem is that I still dont know if she thinks of me as like a relative or as a good friend. We are not blood relatives. I really like this girl now and I dont know whether I should make a move on her or not cause she also lives a little far away. She gave me her number. I want to keep in touch with her and I know guys usually don't call just to talk. What should I do about her next?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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anymore suggestions or comments?
 
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I didnt really plan on liking her. It just sort of happened.
 
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No suggestions or recommendations needed. If you want her, and she ain't blood, and it doesn't creep you out, go for it.

What other people think doesn't matter.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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