"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DannyB0y

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Anyone know any good ways of getting rid of the fear of rejection?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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from what i've read, the best, easiest, and simplest way is to just do it anyways... of course its easier said than done. but its the only way
 

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once again................^^^REaD The BiBle^^^^^^^^^^^Up UP
 

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the only wya 2 get better is to fail...of course u might succeed but for the first couple times it is unlikely...it's best to get it out the way now. If you aren't ready to fail, you aren't ready to succeed
 

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DannyB0y,

There are none. Sorry to tell you that....but it's the truth.

In the end, you have to realize this:

Are you going to let an irrational fear dictate your actions towards women, or are you going to take control of your life and live it to the fullest?

Your call....
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by CrazyVatoLoco
from what i've read, the best, easiest, and simplest way is to just do it anyways... of course its easier said than done. but its the only way
 
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