"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Anyone know any good ways of getting rid of the fear of rejection?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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from what i've read, the best, easiest, and simplest way is to just do it anyways... of course its easier said than done. but its the only way
 
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once again................^^^REaD The BiBle^^^^^^^^^^^Up UP
 
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the only wya 2 get better is to fail...of course u might succeed but for the first couple times it is unlikely...it's best to get it out the way now. If you aren't ready to fail, you aren't ready to succeed
 
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DannyB0y,

There are none. Sorry to tell you that....but it's the truth.

In the end, you have to realize this:

Are you going to let an irrational fear dictate your actions towards women, or are you going to take control of your life and live it to the fullest?

Your call....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by CrazyVatoLoco
from what i've read, the best, easiest, and simplest way is to just do it anyways... of course its easier said than done. but its the only way
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