You should try to make a move as fast as possible , even trying to sleep with her after the 1st date .Rejection when I don’t know the girl has never really bothered me. It’s the rejection after 4-5 dates where I’ve invested my time and money and effort into someone and then am fed a bull**** excuse that isn’t the real reason she’s rejecting me. That’s what bothers me the most and what I’ve experienced more than rejection from a girl just by asking her out.
the longer the wheel starts roving in her mind the more likely it is that she will reject you , because she will think about other guys who moved faster than you and then she will compare them with you and will think that she does not like you enough