“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rejecting ugly girls

mcpwn

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so how do u reject girls that are not good looking while being nice
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lol, i have the same problem, people have told me to start acting AFC around them. Ive just learned not to escalate with them.
 

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I have this problem from time to time...a fat chick or other type of less-than-desirable girl keeps flirting with me....It's not fun.

I'd Say:

Don't be rude, but let them know you're aren't attracted to them. Now's your chance to put all that rejection you got from hotties to good use. Turn the situation around, and do the whole polite small talk into a "Oh, I have to go now...I'm late for ______, see you around."
 

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funny how when u use AFC around an ugly chick they like u more because u built rapport!
 

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Or if you're in a social enviroment...don't look at them, let your eyes wander....if they aren't brain damaged or uber-desperate they'll take the hint.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Crazy Asian

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mcpwn said:
so how do u reject girls that are not good looking while being nice
I actually don't know many fat chicks, but there are 2 that are really creeping me out.
In the hallway, if I see them, i'm like OHHH sh1t.

lol, but they might have hot friends :)
 

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krazyboy99 said:
for those of you b1tching about ugly girls, how many girls have u actually hooked up with? mainly going to the OP and crazy asian. beggars can't be choosers. get some experience under your belt before you start getting ****y. it's messed up to be a d1ck to a girl just because of her looks, but if you aren't even getting any then its just pathetic
Come on, have some standards. Being a DJ is about respecting yourself first. It's about attracting the girls that you want. You are the prize. Don't settle for the scraps off the table when you deserve the three-course meal.

As for rejecting a girl you aren't attracted to, it's a lot like getting over an ex. Don't respond to calls, texts, etc. Say you're busy. Keep conversations short, and polite, but as brief as possible. She'll get the hint. If not, you may have to resort to more brutal honesty.
 

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Come on, have some standards. Being a DJ is about respecting yourself first. It's about attracting the girls that you want. You are the prize. Don't settle for the scraps off the table when you deserve the three-course meal.
amen brotha couldnt have said it better myself
 

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Lol, i had the woman who lives opposite me came over and started chatting and she asked if i wanted to go out sometime.

I just said "really sorry, but i really am too busy to be seeing anyone right now"

Just tell them the truth in a way that isn't too harsh, and they will get the message.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Every ugly chick knows a hot chick. Networking is key.
 

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"i'm gay"

or

"you're friends with so-and-so, right? <and talk about how awesome her friend is and how you'd love to date her and such>"
 

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While you're still being polite while dealing with any girl you don't want to date, be an observer and learn from these situations as well. If she is acting AFC, take note, especially if she keeps at it persistently. Now you will have an experience as to why being clingy/needy will not help the cause with whoever you are trying to game.
 

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Say you are talking to someone already it's always a good one.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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