A few days ago I had sex with this girl after a night out. I was wasted but I guess she wasn't. We talked for a good hour beforehand, I enjoyed it for what it was and didn't tell her anything that wasn't true, but it turns out that apparently she was a virgin and now she's becoming really attatched. I'm not sure what to do. I'm not interested in dating her or anything. I haven't seen her since, we've just been texting since she lives in a different city. She wants to come visit me on Saturday so we can hang out. I'm not attracted to her at all but from what I remember, we had good conversation and I could be friends with her if she wanted. Anyway, what should I do and is there anyway to get out of this without being an *******?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rejecting a girl
- Thread starter mfd1830
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just stop responding to her texts (don't answer her calls), and she'll get the point.
It's surprising that she lost her virginity while sober to a drunk guy. Didn't she have opportunities before this to lose it? And if so, was she saving it for the right drunk dude?
It's surprising that she lost her virginity while sober to a drunk guy. Didn't she have opportunities before this to lose it? And if so, was she saving it for the right drunk dude?
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Senior Don Juan
why did you have sex with a girl you were not interested in or at least weren't even attracted to? But I guess you reap what you sow. Just ignore her and she'll get the hint. Say you're busy this weekend and can't meet up. Leave it at that and never respond to her messages again.