A few days ago I had sex with this girl after a night out. I was wasted but I guess she wasn't. We talked for a good hour beforehand, I enjoyed it for what it was and didn't tell her anything that wasn't true, but it turns out that apparently she was a virgin and now she's becoming really attatched. I'm not sure what to do. I'm not interested in dating her or anything. I haven't seen her since, we've just been texting since she lives in a different city. She wants to come visit me on Saturday so we can hang out. I'm not attracted to her at all but from what I remember, we had good conversation and I could be friends with her if she wanted. Anyway, what should I do and is there anyway to get out of this without being an *******?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Rejecting a girl
- Thread starter mfd1830
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Just stop responding to her texts (don't answer her calls), and she'll get the point.
It's surprising that she lost her virginity while sober to a drunk guy. Didn't she have opportunities before this to lose it? And if so, was she saving it for the right drunk dude?
It's surprising that she lost her virginity while sober to a drunk guy. Didn't she have opportunities before this to lose it? And if so, was she saving it for the right drunk dude?
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Senior Don Juan
why did you have sex with a girl you were not interested in or at least weren't even attracted to? But I guess you reap what you sow. Just ignore her and she'll get the hint. Say you're busy this weekend and can't meet up. Leave it at that and never respond to her messages again.