Rejecting -- a family member. My sister keeps trying to 'be close'.

[Accension]

My sister is 17 years old and lately has been really 'cute' with me.

I don't know if it's just because she's maturing but it's getting creepy.
Half an hour ago, I got home and sitting on the couch was my sister in a blatantly slutty, bunny outfit -- her old Halloween costume.

It's like she was waiting for me right until I got home.
As well as this freak occasion, she's been trying to snuggle up with me on the couch, brush my teeth, feed me, hold hands. Man, it's the kind of thing my girlfriend does.

Any way, is this just a phase or something, else?

 

[Warrior74]

hit it, then go all afc on her, she'll run for the hills then...oh wait, what?

 

[maj]

I was going to say it's a phase, but with the bunny suit and the snuggling I'd say something is totally out of whack. Run for the hills, man.

 

[HariPoter13]

Her 'hormones' are probably going crazy. Dont get upset over it, shes just testing new things on her brother thats all. Maybe have a talk with her about boys.

 

[Exhumed]

That's really weird dude. If it were a step sister.....perhaps I could relate haha

 

[Rho]

ech i get a similar thing from my cousin, who is quite younger than me (she is 15, Im 23). I think in her mind I somewhat resemble that twilight guy and like everyone her age, she's a fan.

Also, she seems to get b!tchy and jealous whenever other girls are mentioned.

I just tell her to "fvck off" when she starts acting like some creeper, although according to the literature this may be having the opposite to intended effect.

 

[Accension]

She keeps running up to me and cuddling me. GRRR!
I'm glad you guys think this is weird too.

Still, if I reject her at a young age, couldn't it like -- damage her?

hit it, then go all afc on her, she'll run for the hills then...oh wait, what?

hahaha
Yeah, this might just be a shi> test!
SHE'S TESTING ME, SHOULD I NEG HER!? lmao

 

[Tesl]

Still, if I reject her at a young age, couldn't it like -- damage her?

Not as much damage as if you did something with her!

The answer is kind of obvious here, you ignore it as much as possible.

I find both the OP as well as some of the replies truly strange. Is this something that commonly happens in the US?

 

[Accension]

Not as much damage as if you did something with her!

The answer is kind of obvious here, you ignore it as much as possible.

I find both the OP as well as some of the replies truly strange. Is this something that commonly happens in the US?

Hey, I wasn't insinuating anything suss.
From the replies so far, apparently sisters often have an attraction to their brothers .

 

[YAboi]

its cause you project that you are an amazing sex god that is open to all girls. Check out my new thread.

If you want this to stop, project to her that you are off limits and will only sleep with non blood-related girls.

The problem is that your sister is hyper feminine and therefore she can read your projection of being a sex god clearly. Unfortunately she hasn't found any other man thats as good or even comes close to you mate.......

 

[Forty0ztoFreedom]

Whatever you do, don't get all weirded out about it and make her feel like she's sick. Hormones are out of control at a young age, and making her feel like a weirdo could have serious repercussions for years. I second the motion to have a 'talk' with her, though I don't envy you for it.

 

[Kailex]

I'm surprised that I have yet to read a response strictly saying:

1) Hit the gym

2) NEXT her

3) Don't ignore her, that'll actually draw her more to you.

4) If she wears her bunny suit again, dress up as Hugh Hefner.

5) Read the DJ Bible.



All joking aside, is this a serious topic?
And did anyone get a "Cruel Intentions" flashback from this?

 

[Schwank]

Still, if I reject her at a young age, couldn't it like -- damage her?

You're right. You wouldn't want to reject her advances and shatter her self-esteem. So you may as well stick it to her...

C'mon guys, I at least thought everyone on this board had enough common sense NOT TO take a thread like this for real

 

[Kal]

Get one of your friends to give it to her. She just sounds horny with no guy to give her that release. Either that or she's got some sick fetish.

 

[JabberWalkie]

I second the motion! Hook her up with one of your friends (one you know wont make her preg). This way she has a release and wont feel rejected.

 

[boomerick]

I would say to........ hit the gym, NEXT her, don't ignore her that'll actually draw her more to you, if she wears her bunny suit again dress up as Hugh Hefner, and read the DJ Bible.......what? ....oh sh!t!

 

[r0cky]

Thats really freaken sick. But if thats what you trailer thrash people like to do, nobody is stopping you.

 

[mustfirstregister]

hook me up and i do her for u if you want.

 

[PRMoon]

Start mentioning the girls you date who are your age on a regular basis. Ask her for advice and stuff like that. Most girls who want to date me HATE that and they stop calling me soon after. I agree with whoever said ask her about her relationship with boys. If she's just making it to this stage in her life, then she's got a lot of emotions and what not that she doesn't fully understand. Better some one she obviously trust coach her a bit then the alternative. Trust me if she goes out and gets knocked up by some random dude, you'll miss the days when she just hugged you and stuff because when her baby arrives she's gonna be angry at the world and that includes you. Expect lots of broken mugs and plates.

 

[Accension]

I just had the talk with her.

She said that she has had some experience with boys but finds me "hot for a brother".
It was also implied that the other boys didn't make her feel the same way.

The talk just made things more weird because now she's openly expressing her liking of me.

I've tried telling her that liking your brother is immoral ethically and that we're hard wired not to be sexual with family members (huge genetics talk) but she more or less just said, "But your my brother. It wouldn't be weird.."

I need more specific help.
My talk some how reinforced her feelings and now she seems to think that "it's not weird".

I don't want my sister getting slu>ty in order to chase 'the feeling' because I turned her down or something, and I sure as hell don't want to reciprocate the feeling.

Edit: I'm not setting her up with my friends. They are too old for her and the problem isn't a lack of guys. She actually made it pretty clear that she just doesn't feel the same around other guys as she does me. eewww