"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rejected or is she just not that into me?

Sgthaytham

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I sent her a quick text Friday asking her out, and her response was "Hey :) With pleasure. I'm not sure of my work schedule for next week, I will let you know".

So, to me, that's a rejection, but then that very night we're having sex and we spent most of Saturday at her place.

Should I wait until she texts me? Should I move on? Should I text her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sgthaytham

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Yes, his message signals his intent, her reply with her availability will signal hers…
I've already should her my intent. If I send her another message, it could come across as needy, and she'll likely say she still doesn't have an idea... idk maybe she doesn't know her schedule just yet.

I will see what next week gives.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I sent her a quick text Friday asking her out, and her response was "Hey :) With pleasure. I'm not sure of my work schedule for next week, I will let you know".

So, to me, that's a rejection, but then that very night we're having sex and we spent most of Saturday at her place.

Should I wait until she texts me? Should I move on? Should I text her?
What's the difference? Comply or bye.

Fellas need to be more cut throat. Shout-out to ARC. Mode 1. No free attention.

I next based on any ambiguity or lmr.
 

RickPound

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I sent her a quick text Friday asking her out, and her response was "Hey :) With pleasure. I'm not sure of my work schedule for next week, I will let you know".

So, to me, that's a rejection, but then that very night we're having sex and we spent most of Saturday at her place.

Should I wait until she texts me? Should I move on? Should I text her?
You asked her out Friday and that night had sex and spent the next day together and you’re worried about if she still wants to go out with you during the week? I’d say you’re asking out text is obsolete at this point - she’s interested and knows you asked her to do something during the week. Wait for her to bring it up.
 

Sgthaytham

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You asked her out Friday and that night had sex and spent the next day together and you’re worried about if she still wants to go out with you during the week? I’d say you’re asking out text is obsolete at this point - she’s interested and knows you asked her to do something during the week. Wait for her to bring it up.
we had sex again last night...

And she did something that I really like but not many girls have ever known I like...
 
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