"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rejected Losing friends at the same time

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FunkyMillion

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Ok. here is the deal guys..

I got rejected by this bytch and now she's hanging out with my homies. Fvck... now it feels akward hagning out with my homies cuz it feels like I'm detaching myself from all of them... It feels like my homies are getting closer to her and her other friends than to me... I feel like losing friends here guys... what the fvck should I do.. I know that friends come and go. Should I just screw it and get new friends (which what I'm thinking of.)

I know that my homies are my homies, but it just feels wierd when she's around. I'm can't be comfortable.

And by the way, I have no idea why I even was attracted to this bytch. She got fat in the last 6 months, I mean literally fat. Now I got a bad rep for getting rejected by a fat@ss and I'm losing friends at the same time. Shyt!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tactic

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wrong forum
 
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dude who cares if its uncomfortable. Just keep chilling with your buds and dont worry that you got rejected.. its not the end of the world man.
 
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Eternal

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Moved to Discussion.
 
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ScrewIt

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who cares??

dont let that get to you. your friends & her will sense that you're uncomfortable hanging with them. just act like nothing happened between the 2 of you
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So you got rejected by the fatty, and now the fatty is the chick in the social circle all your boys are flcoking around giving attention to (are you in HS?)

I'm guessing you aren't hanging out with the group because your embarrassed of being around her? You want to show you don't care by distancing yourself from her and thus your friends....

Well that means you are dropping your friends because of this chick...Sounds like a one-itis case...If you seriously aren't attracted to her, you can carry on normally and hang out with everyone...make friends, don't hit on the girl, and don't give up your boys over it....Water under the bridge. Don't let her impact who you hang out with, what you do, or your perception of yourself....
 
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