"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rejected Losing friends at the same time

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FunkyMillion

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Ok. here is the deal guys..

I got rejected by this bytch and now she's hanging out with my homies. Fvck... now it feels akward hagning out with my homies cuz it feels like I'm detaching myself from all of them... It feels like my homies are getting closer to her and her other friends than to me... I feel like losing friends here guys... what the fvck should I do.. I know that friends come and go. Should I just screw it and get new friends (which what I'm thinking of.)

I know that my homies are my homies, but it just feels wierd when she's around. I'm can't be comfortable.

And by the way, I have no idea why I even was attracted to this bytch. She got fat in the last 6 months, I mean literally fat. Now I got a bad rep for getting rejected by a fat@ss and I'm losing friends at the same time. Shyt!!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tactic

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wrong forum
 
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dude who cares if its uncomfortable. Just keep chilling with your buds and dont worry that you got rejected.. its not the end of the world man.
 
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Moved to Discussion.
 
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ScrewIt

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who cares??

dont let that get to you. your friends & her will sense that you're uncomfortable hanging with them. just act like nothing happened between the 2 of you
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So you got rejected by the fatty, and now the fatty is the chick in the social circle all your boys are flcoking around giving attention to (are you in HS?)

I'm guessing you aren't hanging out with the group because your embarrassed of being around her? You want to show you don't care by distancing yourself from her and thus your friends....

Well that means you are dropping your friends because of this chick...Sounds like a one-itis case...If you seriously aren't attracted to her, you can carry on normally and hang out with everyone...make friends, don't hit on the girl, and don't give up your boys over it....Water under the bridge. Don't let her impact who you hang out with, what you do, or your perception of yourself....
 
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