"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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rejected form 29 year old im 19 this bad??

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hey guys im leaving my church and this blonde girl i see every week is walking out so im like kinda in back of her.. she goes r u here for confimation i go nooo lol u think i look that young.. she goes maybe 20 i go yeah she goes i see you here every week then i go yeah ur here wit some guy someteims she goes thats my friend i go... how old r you she laughs at me and goes 29 then walks away listen im not ugly at all but i kno its a bad rejection but how bad is that lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Anywhere but churt would be a point of no return. I bet she's just a nice girl that believes in god and all that crap. You're too young. Hit on older women in front of her, slvttier women. Her mom hot?
 

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sportf190 said:
hey guys im leaving my church and this blonde girl i see every week is walking out so im like kinda in back of her.. she goes r u here for confimation i go nooo lol u think i look that young.. she goes maybe 20 i go yeah she goes i see you here every week then i go yeah ur here wit some guy someteims she goes thats my friend i go... how old r you she laughs at me and goes 29 then walks away listen im not ugly at all but i kno its a bad rejection but how bad is that lol
You'll learn once you're older and you realize that bringing up age doesn't help your game, it just shows that you're lacking in it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Social_disturbance said:
Yeah but why do you want a 29 year old if your 19. Just stick with your own age.

Why? Older women know their way around and have less silly games to play.

In general anyways.

I've only dated a younger girl once, and it did not go well. I prefer the older women that actually have more to life than pointless ego-boosting and materialistic personalities.

Go out with whoever you want.
 

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Social_disturbance said:
Yeah but why do you want a 29 year old if your 19. Just stick with your own age.
Nah, I wouldn't say that. It's just that kids (young guys) are the ones who make a big deal out of age. I think they feel that it will allow them the green light to make a move. Young women seldom think about this; interesting.
 
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