"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rejected form 29 year old im 19 this bad??

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hey guys im leaving my church and this blonde girl i see every week is walking out so im like kinda in back of her.. she goes r u here for confimation i go nooo lol u think i look that young.. she goes maybe 20 i go yeah she goes i see you here every week then i go yeah ur here wit some guy someteims she goes thats my friend i go... how old r you she laughs at me and goes 29 then walks away listen im not ugly at all but i kno its a bad rejection but how bad is that lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Anywhere but churt would be a point of no return. I bet she's just a nice girl that believes in god and all that crap. You're too young. Hit on older women in front of her, slvttier women. Her mom hot?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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sportf190 said:
hey guys im leaving my church and this blonde girl i see every week is walking out so im like kinda in back of her.. she goes r u here for confimation i go nooo lol u think i look that young.. she goes maybe 20 i go yeah she goes i see you here every week then i go yeah ur here wit some guy someteims she goes thats my friend i go... how old r you she laughs at me and goes 29 then walks away listen im not ugly at all but i kno its a bad rejection but how bad is that lol
You'll learn once you're older and you realize that bringing up age doesn't help your game, it just shows that you're lacking in it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Social_disturbance said:
Yeah but why do you want a 29 year old if your 19. Just stick with your own age.

Why? Older women know their way around and have less silly games to play.

In general anyways.

I've only dated a younger girl once, and it did not go well. I prefer the older women that actually have more to life than pointless ego-boosting and materialistic personalities.

Go out with whoever you want.
 

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Social_disturbance said:
Yeah but why do you want a 29 year old if your 19. Just stick with your own age.
Nah, I wouldn't say that. It's just that kids (young guys) are the ones who make a big deal out of age. I think they feel that it will allow them the green light to make a move. Young women seldom think about this; interesting.
 
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