“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Rejected, but i don´t know why. Is there a change to change her mind?

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Several weeks ago ive met an interesting woman. We chatted and there was a lot of fun and a connection.
During carnaval, a week ago, i met her once more. I suggested to have a drink together soon. She agreed without hesitation. So a few days ago i send her a short message: hey, let´s have a drink in town, in this bar at his time.

She responded:
Hello Littlebigone, i dont think it´s a good idea to have a drink in town. I think you are a great guy but nothing more...sorry. I really like it to have a drink with you in a bar but i am afraid you have intentions. I don´t have those intentions.

Now, i don´t take it too personal but i just don´t understand a woman can change her mind like that. There might be a 1000 reasons for it but it really sucks.

How do such thinks happen???? This can´t be the friendzone....
Is there a way to change her mind?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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LittleBigOne said:
Is there a way to change her mind?
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Have you tried rape?



Edit: I'll be serious now. The answer to your question is yes and no.

She may spot you with a hotter tighter lighter woman and become the returning fox, but by that stage you won't care anyway. So I guess in the grand scheme of things the answer is NO and even if it wasn't and there was a way you might be able to summon Beelzebub himself to change her mind why would you entertain the idea for even a split second? Have some dignity and self worth for goodness sake.
 
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LittleBigOne- Instead of wasting your time and effort on someone who is showing no interest, why not spend that effort on someone who actually likes and deserves you? Even if you somehow landed this girl (after an absurd amount of time and effort), I can guarantee she'll lose interest in the early stages of the relationship and leave you in the dust. Unfortunately, I'm speaking from experience.
 
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Your princess is in another castle. Accept this fact and move on. Very simple solution. This situation is not any good that is for you. You are not getting past the friendzone with her. Sorry.

Don't try to negotiate her feelings. Don't negotiate desire. Don't negotiate attraction. Don't chase this girl. Don't plead your case with her. :nono:

DO, however, go ghost on her ass. :up:

Case closed.
 
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