"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rejected, but i don´t know why. Is there a change to change her mind?

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Several weeks ago ive met an interesting woman. We chatted and there was a lot of fun and a connection.
During carnaval, a week ago, i met her once more. I suggested to have a drink together soon. She agreed without hesitation. So a few days ago i send her a short message: hey, let´s have a drink in town, in this bar at his time.

She responded:
Hello Littlebigone, i dont think it´s a good idea to have a drink in town. I think you are a great guy but nothing more...sorry. I really like it to have a drink with you in a bar but i am afraid you have intentions. I don´t have those intentions.

Now, i don´t take it too personal but i just don´t understand a woman can change her mind like that. There might be a 1000 reasons for it but it really sucks.

How do such thinks happen???? This can´t be the friendzone....
Is there a way to change her mind?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LittleBigOne said:
Is there a way to change her mind?
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Have you tried rape?



Edit: I'll be serious now. The answer to your question is yes and no.

She may spot you with a hotter tighter lighter woman and become the returning fox, but by that stage you won't care anyway. So I guess in the grand scheme of things the answer is NO and even if it wasn't and there was a way you might be able to summon Beelzebub himself to change her mind why would you entertain the idea for even a split second? Have some dignity and self worth for goodness sake.
 
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LittleBigOne- Instead of wasting your time and effort on someone who is showing no interest, why not spend that effort on someone who actually likes and deserves you? Even if you somehow landed this girl (after an absurd amount of time and effort), I can guarantee she'll lose interest in the early stages of the relationship and leave you in the dust. Unfortunately, I'm speaking from experience.
 
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Judge nismo on the case.

Your princess is in another castle. Accept this fact and move on. Very simple solution. This situation is not any good that is for you. You are not getting past the friendzone with her. Sorry.

Don't try to negotiate her feelings. Don't negotiate desire. Don't negotiate attraction. Don't chase this girl. Don't plead your case with her. :nono:

DO, however, go ghost on her ass. :up:

Case closed.
 
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