Borknagar
Master Don Juan
Aside from those who started this site, I am probably the longest registered user who acknowledges this sites existence and remembers their username/password.
I registered almost 20 years ago. That's right, the women a lot of you are chasing were babys or grade school when I signed up. As were many of you.
I've been in a LTR since late 2012/early 2013 then marriage and we've been "no contact" for over a month, under the same roof. There have been issues for awhile.
Before this, I've never had anything remotely LTR, sadly I got what I think ya'll call is onits or something(yeah I miss her, but it's acceptable to have this during the downfall of a LTR, not on a women you had a few dates with) I can't remember all the damn lingo.
But one thing I have learned to get rid of this AFC(average frustrated chump) is be in this situation. A long LTR that makes you not wanna do it ever again, "mostly", assuming it doesn't work out though you want it to. You just feel you don't want to put this much time into a relationship again only for it to go downhill and end. However, if I do ever decide to venture after this all is final, maybe, I don't think I would be the same as 10 years ago(luckily, though, appearance wise, I look the same, but have to use "just for men" on the salt and pepper going on, being 40 and all. But don't look it. I work out too, still waiting on those wrinkles I was promised). I would be pretty shy, but I don't think I could be an AFC. I just wouldn't care enough.
I'll explain more later. I've chilling in the garage with the heater on. This corona BS is boring me to tears. I had to make due with the garage to lift weights and install a poormans pully system for pulldowns, But hell it works. The rest of my workout stuff is in "her space".
I registered almost 20 years ago. That's right, the women a lot of you are chasing were babys or grade school when I signed up. As were many of you.
I've been in a LTR since late 2012/early 2013 then marriage and we've been "no contact" for over a month, under the same roof. There have been issues for awhile.
Before this, I've never had anything remotely LTR, sadly I got what I think ya'll call is onits or something(yeah I miss her, but it's acceptable to have this during the downfall of a LTR, not on a women you had a few dates with) I can't remember all the damn lingo.
But one thing I have learned to get rid of this AFC(average frustrated chump) is be in this situation. A long LTR that makes you not wanna do it ever again, "mostly", assuming it doesn't work out though you want it to. You just feel you don't want to put this much time into a relationship again only for it to go downhill and end. However, if I do ever decide to venture after this all is final, maybe, I don't think I would be the same as 10 years ago(luckily, though, appearance wise, I look the same, but have to use "just for men" on the salt and pepper going on, being 40 and all. But don't look it. I work out too, still waiting on those wrinkles I was promised). I would be pretty shy, but I don't think I could be an AFC. I just wouldn't care enough.
I'll explain more later. I've chilling in the garage with the heater on. This corona BS is boring me to tears. I had to make due with the garage to lift weights and install a poormans pully system for pulldowns, But hell it works. The rest of my workout stuff is in "her space".