"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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defiancy

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After you gave body language to the girl like eye contact and all that stuff and she is sexually interested or interested like how FINGERs talks about WEAPONS OF MASS SEDUCTION, if you don't talk to her or make a move fully then would she try to pursue you and make you jealous by talking to other guys right when they're next to you.....

Just a thought that came up within me...
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJUofS

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Originally posted by defiancy
After you gave body language to the girl like eye contact and all that stuff and she is sexually interested or interested like how FINGERs talks about WEAPONS OF MASS SEDUCTION, if you don't talk to her or make a move fully then would she try to pursue you and make you jealous by talking to other guys right when they're next to you.....

Just a thought that came up within me...
Your opinions?
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If a girl is interested in you and you aren't giving her any attention, she may talk to other guys to try and make you jealous. This is one of women's many tests. How do you pass? Don't give a fvck.
 

bootlegger

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i find your wording so odd in that you say "gave body language". . .

It's not really something that you give . . . If you think the girl is hot... it should only come natural to try to make eye contact.
 

defiancy

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If you do that DJUofS, wouldn't she want you or something?
 

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I remember a girl some years ago that was flirting with me for a full hour, she then went to the dancefloor (which was at another part of the club) and proceeded to dance with her friend.

I finally got the courage to get my afc-ass over there to talk to her. Ended up kissing and all. She said she found me very attractive. Me being shy and clueless I asked her: What if I hadn't come up to talk to you?
She said: I would have found someone else.

So the point is: The only thing she can see when flirting with you is your appearance and for most girls that is not worth the trouble to go after you.

She may try to make you jealous by dancing with someone else. But she could also be dancing with someone else because he's equally attractive - or maybe even less - but has the balls to go up and talk to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by defiancy
After you gave body language to the girl like eye contact and all that stuff and she is sexually interested or interested like how FINGERs talks about WEAPONS OF MASS SEDUCTION, if you don't talk to her or make a move fully then would she try to pursue you and make you jealous by talking to other guys right when they're next to you.....

Just a thought that came up within me...
Your opinions?
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I do think women would do something like that to make you jealous if you weren't making a move. If you never make the move she will assume that you weren't interested or you were too shy to make a move. Not good, so just talk to her already before she's gone forever.
 

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Originally posted by defiancy
If you do that DJUofS, wouldn't she want you or something?
Generally a women tests you when she is interested in you.
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Generally a women tests you when she is interested in you.
So if you pass this test do you think the woman would approach you?
 

DJUofS

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Originally posted by Fatality
So if you pass this test do you think the woman would approach you?
Don't rely on women approaching you. Very few will... instead, why don't you try to approach her?
 

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Originally posted by DJUofS
Don't rely on women approaching you. Very few will... instead, why don't you try to approach her?
I thought you were saying it was possible if you pass her test that she might appraoach you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Fatality
I thought you were saying it was possible if you pass her test that she might appraoach you.
I never said a women would approach you. I said she might be testing you. Dude, just go up to her and say "whatsup". If she is into you she will make the conversation flow...
 

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It is too common

I experience it every now and then
in office i act somewhat aloof to gals.
and many of the gals try to get my slight attention (like crossing in front of me, to get a reaction from me.)
but when i don't give any they would talk to guys in front of me.

so it is normal.
And i also give them the dose of their own game. When i notice some gal is giving me attitude i make the laugh the other women in front of her. and if i get chance the hottest few.

And i have noticed that it gives them frustration and jolts inside.

thanks to This site i have learned to handle myself better, though lots of things to learn.
 
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