"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Regaining sexual confidence

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Dman101

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HOw do you re(gain) your sexual confidence. I've had numberous times where i had a girl naked ready to have sex, but i would not be able to find the hole. After this happning with about 3 or 4 girls, I developed anxiety about sex, and now I've not been able to stay hard. Theres a girl i've been hangin out with for about 3 months that I kiss and hang with, and i know i need to have sex with her because i sense the Interest Level is going down, but I'm scared to take the chance and mess up again and lose all interest. the furthest i've gone is massaging her and touching her titties. What should i do
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm not sure how you can solve the "hardness" problem, but next time you get to the stage with her naked ask her to guide you in.
 
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You couldn't find the hole? With 3 different girls?

You do realize that part of sexual confidence is to ask for help when you need it? I'd go with what CrunchyNut suggested and ask her to guide you in next time.

As far as the "hardness" problem, get out of your head. Don't be scared to lose all interest. Would you rather have tried and failed or NOT try and not know whether you could've have failed or passed?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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