"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Regaining sexual confidence

Dman101

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HOw do you re(gain) your sexual confidence. I've had numberous times where i had a girl naked ready to have sex, but i would not be able to find the hole. After this happning with about 3 or 4 girls, I developed anxiety about sex, and now I've not been able to stay hard. Theres a girl i've been hangin out with for about 3 months that I kiss and hang with, and i know i need to have sex with her because i sense the Interest Level is going down, but I'm scared to take the chance and mess up again and lose all interest. the furthest i've gone is massaging her and touching her titties. What should i do
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CrunchyNut

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I'm not sure how you can solve the "hardness" problem, but next time you get to the stage with her naked ask her to guide you in.
 

The Bat

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You couldn't find the hole? With 3 different girls?

You do realize that part of sexual confidence is to ask for help when you need it? I'd go with what CrunchyNut suggested and ask her to guide you in next time.

As far as the "hardness" problem, get out of your head. Don't be scared to lose all interest. Would you rather have tried and failed or NOT try and not know whether you could've have failed or passed?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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