"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Reforming Sex Ed

SDBmania

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It all comes down to differences of opinion and the way we look at sex. I always believed that it should be about love and symoblise spiritual feelings. Ok, so maybe I'm old school, but I'm not saying you should wait till marriage. I'm pro choise, as it were, so you should be able to decided. But, I feel having sex as a teenager is not a smart move. Though that is my opinion and is surely subject to be disagreed with. I saw the negitive aspects of having sex in high school. Of course, I wasn't ready then anyway.

I guess most of you seem to see sex as just a physical thing, where I see it as something more. What can I say, I'm part of a dying breed, perhaps with good reason.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Never ever happen until religion is eliminated, which it will never be... too many still in that matrix.

Maybe under the communists it could be done... but they are not interested in pleasure either... way too grim.

Forget it.

Dietzcoi
 

SDBmania

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Originally posted by dietzcoi
Never ever happen until religion is eliminated, which it will never be... too many still in that matrix.
Hehe, guess your not a fan of religion eh? I can understand that. But, I'm NOT in that matrix. I like religion, but I always question my religion. I also use other methods of making decitions.
 
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