"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Redemption for AFC behavior

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We've all done it at some point. We know the rules of the game. Yet at some point out of desperation of losing the interest of a girl, we momentarily revert to our AFC ways and accomplish the exact opposite of what we intended. The obvious solution to this situation is to cut your losses and next her. However, I was wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation and regained their composure after a period of exhibiting AFC behavior and been able to salvage a relationship? I'd like to hear some respsonses of how you went about doing it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WHOA HELLO - look at my thread about my hb9.5 needing time to think, its on one of the first 2 pages of the main forum

JESUS ****IN CHRIST - what you just said is exactly what I did LOL
 

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Yeah, you were in a very similar situation. So what did you do? I like JustDoIt's advice. I wonder if he'd be willing to elaborate his routine further on here. How would someone going about subtly hinting to the hb9.5 that you understand her game.
 

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It makes sense that if you are really "gaming" some girl, being distant, only being an FB and so on... and it screws up... than a bit of AFCism is going to help.

It's all balance, I would think. You can't game all the time or they'll just think you're either an idiot or a player.
 
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