We've all done it at some point. We know the rules of the game. Yet at some point out of desperation of losing the interest of a girl, we momentarily revert to our AFC ways and accomplish the exact opposite of what we intended. The obvious solution to this situation is to cut your losses and next her. However, I was wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation and regained their composure after a period of exhibiting AFC behavior and been able to salvage a relationship? I'd like to hear some respsonses of how you went about doing it.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Redemption for AFC behavior
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