We've all done it at some point. We know the rules of the game. Yet at some point out of desperation of losing the interest of a girl, we momentarily revert to our AFC ways and accomplish the exact opposite of what we intended. The obvious solution to this situation is to cut your losses and next her. However, I was wondering if anyone has ever been in this situation and regained their composure after a period of exhibiting AFC behavior and been able to salvage a relationship? I'd like to hear some respsonses of how you went about doing it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Redemption for AFC behavior
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