"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Red Heads Are Crazy

HollowHorizon

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Is it just me or are all read heads just insane, anyway i was hanging out with this lady id say 7/10 red head, we smoked tons of weed 4 blunts to be exact, she would hit me alot, and i would hit back, now it seems like she plays games to me messing around saying i want you this and that blah blah, and she kept laughing at everything her and her friend would whisper and it would drive me insane, they would look at me and laugh. i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet, i dont understand this girl and it drives me ****ing nuts..................................at the end of the night i just felt like an idiot cuz i had nothing to say and when i did say somthing it would just be stupid
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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qweretyuiopas

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Crazy girls come in all hair colors. I havent noticed 1 type more crazy than others, then again I dont know hardly any redheads
 

rrrrr

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yeah, i've heard a few people say the "redheads are crazy" thing. it's kind of interesting.
 

DarkLight

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They're all "crazy"... but straight up... Redhead's lead the pack!
AGREED!

But in your case... it sounds more like just normal everyday general girl "crazyness" that gotcha.
You write... "i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet"

... I'd answer, who cares!?
All that matters is your response to scenario's.

Say if they were laughing at you, all stoned, etc... and you were to just sit there, like a lion.
All relaxed, pimpin, with a big smirk... owning both those b!tches through your dominant frame...
Then what!?

I'll tell you.................... your power would have been the deciding factor to that scenario.
Eventually steering the mood, and both of these lil bunnies into your vibe. AKA: Exactly what you want.

So from now on... forget about what they're thinking and if something is "good or bad"
You decide where you want it to go, and what you want it to be. REGARDLESS!
That attitude and command alone, will create the preferred scenario.

SuaveOn'
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kourt

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**** YES! redheads are definatly crazy. Whenever I try to date a redhead.... yeah crazy... doenst work... dont 'date' redheads.... they're only good for ****ing most of the time
 

KillaCam

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Oh the generalisations roll on.

I've met more crazy blondes than I have redheads..
 

DarthJuan

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Last girl I dated was a redhead.
Without a doubt: sHe cRaZy!!
Wildest outbursts of temper I've ever seen.
Crazy-ass bytch.
But sexy as all hell.
Yeah, she does the hit and giggle kino type of stuff too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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