"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Red Heads Are Crazy

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Is it just me or are all read heads just insane, anyway i was hanging out with this lady id say 7/10 red head, we smoked tons of weed 4 blunts to be exact, she would hit me alot, and i would hit back, now it seems like she plays games to me messing around saying i want you this and that blah blah, and she kept laughing at everything her and her friend would whisper and it would drive me insane, they would look at me and laugh. i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet, i dont understand this girl and it drives me ****ing nuts..................................at the end of the night i just felt like an idiot cuz i had nothing to say and when i did say somthing it would just be stupid
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crazy girls come in all hair colors. I havent noticed 1 type more crazy than others, then again I dont know hardly any redheads
 
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yeah, i've heard a few people say the "redheads are crazy" thing. it's kind of interesting.
 
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They're all "crazy"... but straight up... Redhead's lead the pack!
AGREED!

But in your case... it sounds more like just normal everyday general girl "crazyness" that gotcha.
You write... "i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet"

... I'd answer, who cares!?
All that matters is your response to scenario's.

Say if they were laughing at you, all stoned, etc... and you were to just sit there, like a lion.
All relaxed, pimpin, with a big smirk... owning both those b!tches through your dominant frame...
Then what!?

I'll tell you.................... your power would have been the deciding factor to that scenario.
Eventually steering the mood, and both of these lil bunnies into your vibe. AKA: Exactly what you want.

So from now on... forget about what they're thinking and if something is "good or bad"
You decide where you want it to go, and what you want it to be. REGARDLESS!
That attitude and command alone, will create the preferred scenario.

SuaveOn'
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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**** YES! redheads are definatly crazy. Whenever I try to date a redhead.... yeah crazy... doenst work... dont 'date' redheads.... they're only good for ****ing most of the time
 
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Oh the generalisations roll on.

I've met more crazy blondes than I have redheads..
 
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Last girl I dated was a redhead.
Without a doubt: sHe cRaZy!!
Wildest outbursts of temper I've ever seen.
Crazy-ass bytch.
But sexy as all hell.
Yeah, she does the hit and giggle kino type of stuff too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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