"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Red Heads Are Crazy

HollowHorizon

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Is it just me or are all read heads just insane, anyway i was hanging out with this lady id say 7/10 red head, we smoked tons of weed 4 blunts to be exact, she would hit me alot, and i would hit back, now it seems like she plays games to me messing around saying i want you this and that blah blah, and she kept laughing at everything her and her friend would whisper and it would drive me insane, they would look at me and laugh. i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet, i dont understand this girl and it drives me ****ing nuts..................................at the end of the night i just felt like an idiot cuz i had nothing to say and when i did say somthing it would just be stupid
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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qweretyuiopas

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Crazy girls come in all hair colors. I havent noticed 1 type more crazy than others, then again I dont know hardly any redheads
 

rrrrr

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yeah, i've heard a few people say the "redheads are crazy" thing. it's kind of interesting.
 

DarkLight

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They're all "crazy"... but straight up... Redhead's lead the pack!
AGREED!

But in your case... it sounds more like just normal everyday general girl "crazyness" that gotcha.
You write... "i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing im not too shure yet"

... I'd answer, who cares!?
All that matters is your response to scenario's.

Say if they were laughing at you, all stoned, etc... and you were to just sit there, like a lion.
All relaxed, pimpin, with a big smirk... owning both those b!tches through your dominant frame...
Then what!?

I'll tell you.................... your power would have been the deciding factor to that scenario.
Eventually steering the mood, and both of these lil bunnies into your vibe. AKA: Exactly what you want.

So from now on... forget about what they're thinking and if something is "good or bad"
You decide where you want it to go, and what you want it to be. REGARDLESS!
That attitude and command alone, will create the preferred scenario.

SuaveOn'
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kourt

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**** YES! redheads are definatly crazy. Whenever I try to date a redhead.... yeah crazy... doenst work... dont 'date' redheads.... they're only good for ****ing most of the time
 

KillaCam

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Oh the generalisations roll on.

I've met more crazy blondes than I have redheads..
 

DarthJuan

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Last girl I dated was a redhead.
Without a doubt: sHe cRaZy!!
Wildest outbursts of temper I've ever seen.
Crazy-ass bytch.
But sexy as all hell.
Yeah, she does the hit and giggle kino type of stuff too.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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