"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Red Flags

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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MoMoses

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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
 

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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
I agree, but in 2021 people only put their phone down when they stop breathing.
 

derby1

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Shows interest in your life and hobbies
Ive been out with a quite a few over the last 3 months, and ive noticed they asked Nothing about me...(or very little)

they even messaged me to arrange a 3rd meet, and still asked very little,.

Is Social media poisoning them? Solipsism
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Modern Man Advice

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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
Where to start, huh?
  • Bashes on her ex or even worse every ex
  • Takes initiative sometimes
  • She is rude to waiters/waitresses or any person for that matter
  • Not willing to have an open and respectful discussion about sensitive subjects
  • Among many, many, many other (some stated here, some soon to be mentioned)

Modern Man Advice
 

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I've got a few.
  • Love bombing
  • Desperate, clingy behavior
  • Emotional trauma
  • Bald - Creates extreme insecurity, depression
  • Making bad decisions then playing the victim - Rebounding
  • Cannot communicate face to face, prefers to hide behind essay texts
  • Phone addict - Facebook addict
  • Blabbermouth - Blabs all your couple problems to friends and family behind your back
  • Talking to other guys behind your back
  • Liar - Gas lighter
  • Jealousy - I'm not talking a little which is healthy
  • Lacks empathy
  • Lives in a pigsty - very messy house
  • No money, no resources
  • Owns horses
  • Mixed messages - Hot and cold
 
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is a Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo, or Scorpio
is on a dating app and has lived in said city for more than a year and a half
Feminist/SJW
Maintains contact with exes
owns horses
has read receipts
 

Georgepithyou

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This is a bigger red flag then you would think, it basically means she ia very stubborn and set in her ways.

Another big red flag is, they hide their last seen on messaging apps like whatsapp. It means she has a habit of ghosting or flaking on people
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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