"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Red Flags

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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MoMoses

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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
 

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Green Flags

- Suggests to pay because you paid the last round
- Shows interest in your life and hobbies
- Doesn't create drama when you have other things planned and can't hang out
- Puts her phone down when she is with you (= even the good ones have problems with this)
- Doesn't leave you on read to gauge your reaction
- is happy with her life and laughs a lot

trying to keep things positive here :)
I agree, but in 2021 people only put their phone down when they stop breathing.
 

derby1

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Shows interest in your life and hobbies
Ive been out with a quite a few over the last 3 months, and ive noticed they asked Nothing about me...(or very little)

they even messaged me to arrange a 3rd meet, and still asked very little,.

Is Social media poisoning them? Solipsism
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Modern Man Advice

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- Has a life full of drama
- Portrays herself as a victim
- Everything is always someone else's fault
- Bad relationship with her father
- Toxic degree of wokeness
- Ex was a porn star
- Doesn't get along with your mother
- Her name is Meghan
Where to start, huh?
  • Bashes on her ex or even worse every ex
  • Takes initiative sometimes
  • She is rude to waiters/waitresses or any person for that matter
  • Not willing to have an open and respectful discussion about sensitive subjects
  • Among many, many, many other (some stated here, some soon to be mentioned)

Modern Man Advice
 

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I've got a few.
  • Love bombing
  • Desperate, clingy behavior
  • Emotional trauma
  • Bald - Creates extreme insecurity, depression
  • Making bad decisions then playing the victim - Rebounding
  • Cannot communicate face to face, prefers to hide behind essay texts
  • Phone addict - Facebook addict
  • Blabbermouth - Blabs all your couple problems to friends and family behind your back
  • Talking to other guys behind your back
  • Liar - Gas lighter
  • Jealousy - I'm not talking a little which is healthy
  • Lacks empathy
  • Lives in a pigsty - very messy house
  • No money, no resources
  • Owns horses
  • Mixed messages - Hot and cold
 
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is a Leo, Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Virgo, or Scorpio
is on a dating app and has lived in said city for more than a year and a half
Feminist/SJW
Maintains contact with exes
owns horses
has read receipts
 

Georgepithyou

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This is a bigger red flag then you would think, it basically means she ia very stubborn and set in her ways.

Another big red flag is, they hide their last seen on messaging apps like whatsapp. It means she has a habit of ghosting or flaking on people
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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