Red flags.
- Thread starter shizz702
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You pretty much have to... But, there's a difference between woman crazy and bat**** crazy. Certain things are normal, and you pretty much have to tolerate it. But troubled people take everything to the extreme - because they ARE extreme.
I can tell the difference between a *****/***** and a decent girl very easily. The former tries pretending to be decent, but fails miserably. The charade doesn't last very long at all; she can't pretend to be something she's not. It's only a matter of time before she reveals her true colors of being useless, immature, shallow, and annoying.
You just have to know what to look for, and accept them at face value. The problem most people make is believing and excusing too much... Sympathizing with skanks, and assuming there is so much more to them than what they see. "Oh, she can't be THAT bad; this is probably just a phase; she's afraid to be nice; she's only acting like she's retarded; its not her fault nobody likes her; she's just misunderstood; nobody knows her like I do". Blah blah.
Too many people assume that just because someone complains and plays the victim - means they are any better than those they complain about. So, they look for the depth that doesn't exist, and try being decent to them - in hopes of them returning the favor. But, its nothing more than a loser complaining. What you see is what you get. 100%.
I can tell the difference between a *****/***** and a decent girl very easily. The former tries pretending to be decent, but fails miserably. The charade doesn't last very long at all; she can't pretend to be something she's not. It's only a matter of time before she reveals her true colors of being useless, immature, shallow, and annoying.
You just have to know what to look for, and accept them at face value. The problem most people make is believing and excusing too much... Sympathizing with skanks, and assuming there is so much more to them than what they see. "Oh, she can't be THAT bad; this is probably just a phase; she's afraid to be nice; she's only acting like she's retarded; its not her fault nobody likes her; she's just misunderstood; nobody knows her like I do". Blah blah.
Too many people assume that just because someone complains and plays the victim - means they are any better than those they complain about. So, they look for the depth that doesn't exist, and try being decent to them - in hopes of them returning the favor. But, its nothing more than a loser complaining. What you see is what you get. 100%.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
We especially tend to overlook all this crap when the woman in question is hot. I see some average ones and their personalities are almost as bad as that of hot ones, but they simply hide their flaws better knowing they can get away with less. I see no difference, but a 'female desease' in practically all of them. I would say that they are like any other person, generally flawed in one way or another. What surprises most is that these women lack ability to self-reflect on their behavior or even perceive what they do wrong..... no different than kids.
And that's where a lot of guys fail - they take her side, listen to her perspective, and assume that everything she says is true. Focusing on the potential that isn't there. If all she does is *****, act closed off, play the victim, blame others, etc - while treating people like garbage, acting selfish, feeling entitled, making demands, and whoring around - that's exactly who she is. Just as you see it. This isn't a nice girl victim - as she claims to be. It's a loser who attracts what she is, and complains about it. Just because she doesn't see it that way - doesn't make it not true.
People are simply delusional about who they are, what they have to offer, and what they deserve. Nobody is a good judge of their own character, and you should never take their side. Everyone has an excuse to justify what they do wrong - while still doing wrong. Hypocrisy and double standards is all too common. This is where YOU come in. It's up to you find out the truth about them.
People are simply delusional about who they are, what they have to offer, and what they deserve. Nobody is a good judge of their own character, and you should never take their side. Everyone has an excuse to justify what they do wrong - while still doing wrong. Hypocrisy and double standards is all too common. This is where YOU come in. It's up to you find out the truth about them.