"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

red flags -am i over reacting?

A

Albatross953

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2011
Messages
684
Reaction score
100
Age
54
Location
ontario
Met this woman on match. Did you see this coming?

One date...supposed to go to her place tonight.

Bad relationship with her ex
Profile complains about players.
Does not speak to her parents.
Multiple tats, pierced tongue.
Seems like low impulse control, tells me wild stories about when she's been drinking.

The good stuff, very high interest. Runners body.
Very pretty girl. Plus I like my odds tonight.

She texts constantly. Kissed me hard after first date. Pulled her profile down, hasn't been back on match.

Today she texts, saying a friend of hers just lost everything in her house and could I maybe help. Domestic issue not a fire.

WTF, I see this as hugely out of line on top of multiple red flags. I'm thinking of just cutting bait, even before what looks like a fun time.

Without the lectures on online dating...I'm not overreacting right?

Thoughts?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

The Duke

The Duke

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 4, 2008
Messages
6,576
Reaction score
11,624
Yeah she has all the classic haulmarks. She's good for one thing and thats a good time and a good time only. Even just for a good time, she'll be drama. Been there done that.
 
El Payaso

El Payaso

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 16, 2014
Messages
3,621
Reaction score
2,624
Lol. Classic.
 
T

TheCWord

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
873
Reaction score
63
Albatross953 said:
Today she texts, saying a friend of hers just lost everything in her house and could I maybe help. Domestic issue not a fire.
Click to expand...
After one date? No, I think this is fine. You should definitely help out her friend. And if she has a hookup with an Arabian prince who needs a bank account number to transfer over a million dollars, you should provide her with that as well.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

A

Albatross953

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2011
Messages
684
Reaction score
100
Age
54
Location
ontario
Cword I immediately thought...Wtf is this chick a hooker? But she says she works for the cops as a civilian.

I'm really struggling to not take the easy lay. All these damn BPD threads about great sex. Of course I'm not thinking about the **** show afterwards.

I'm gonna think this through.
 
G

goldengoose

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 12, 2011
Messages
479
Reaction score
116
What do you have to think through? 1 date and she's hitting you up for help? How many more red flags do you need? Normal chicks don't hit you up for help after a date.
 
Last edited:
N

Nn877

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 21, 2013
Messages
170
Reaction score
10
One date? And on match. You're her only resource for help?? Either she just moved from another state or she has burned too many bridges. Sounds weird to me.
 
V

Valentino14

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 21, 2013
Messages
80
Reaction score
51
Do you have extra couches, beds, and TV's to spare? lol

Sounds like some kind of scam to me. I read an article a while back where women look for suckers online after a date they scam the guy out of money. They give some b.s. story where they need help financially. Usually they do it online but some do it after you meet up. This is weird, I would ignore any further texts if it was me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top