Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
As soon as guys realize, accept and choose to own their accountability and also to change their methods, they will realize just how much control that they have over their interactions with women.Jariel said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Recovery 101: How to stop hating women
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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V-Don said:
I second that. It's great to have an honest, open and productive debate without it digressing into some online bytch session.
It shows we DJ's can disagree, yet still engage in civil discourse about a controversial topic.
Kudos gentlemen.
Absolutely!Francisco d'Anconia said:
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
Yawn.DarkLight said:Absolutely!
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave. It's already been said before that the best you can do is control your reaction to her behavior. Losing the bitterness and victim mentality is a start. Tranforming yourself into another "character" is pointless, especially if you are doing nothing wrong. All you are doing supplicating and acting in a way that you think a woman will prefer, which is something AFCs do and something we shouldn't be doing.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Reread the thread, you're not getting it. This has nothing to do with having control over women.Juan_Man said: