Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
As soon as guys realize, accept and choose to own their accountability and also to change their methods, they will realize just how much control that they have over their interactions with women.Jariel said:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Recovery 101: How to stop hating women
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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V-Don said:
I second that. It's great to have an honest, open and productive debate without it digressing into some online bytch session.
It shows we DJ's can disagree, yet still engage in civil discourse about a controversial topic.
Kudos gentlemen.
Absolutely!Francisco d'Anconia said:
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
Yawn.DarkLight said:Absolutely!
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave. It's already been said before that the best you can do is control your reaction to her behavior. Losing the bitterness and victim mentality is a start. Tranforming yourself into another "character" is pointless, especially if you are doing nothing wrong. All you are doing supplicating and acting in a way that you think a woman will prefer, which is something AFCs do and something we shouldn't be doing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Reread the thread, you're not getting it. This has nothing to do with having control over women.Juan_Man said: