Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
As soon as guys realize, accept and choose to own their accountability and also to change their methods, they will realize just how much control that they have over their interactions with women.Jariel said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Recovery 101: How to stop hating women
- Thread starter everywomanshero
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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V-Don said:
I second that. It's great to have an honest, open and productive debate without it digressing into some online bytch session.
It shows we DJ's can disagree, yet still engage in civil discourse about a controversial topic.
Kudos gentlemen.
Absolutely!Francisco d'Anconia said:
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
Yawn.DarkLight said:Absolutely!
The more responsibility we accept to ignowledge, the more power unfolds.
Its like a movie. The AFC character finally wakes up, and realizes "FVCK!"... I don't like this damn role, and how it interacts. So he takes it upon himself to rewrite his own character into that of a DJ. The tools by which he did this, is accepting his reality, and all it takes to transform his character into the new desired reality. He has learned new Response-Abilities. All responses creating different outcomes... he now has more abilities to create in his hands. This is Power.
With that power... one can create the role he wants to play in this movie called life.
SoSuave rises from the ashes... lol. Great Thread.
I don't think even a DJ can control how a woman is going to behave. It's already been said before that the best you can do is control your reaction to her behavior. Losing the bitterness and victim mentality is a start. Tranforming yourself into another "character" is pointless, especially if you are doing nothing wrong. All you are doing supplicating and acting in a way that you think a woman will prefer, which is something AFCs do and something we shouldn't be doing.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Reread the thread, you're not getting it. This has nothing to do with having control over women.Juan_Man said: