Been hanging out with this new girl for a month, number and kiss closed when we first met. High interest level from her, lots of txts, etc in in the first few weeks. She was fun to hang with, good personally and I wanted to get her in the sack. I played it cool and let her do most of the contacting for dates etc. No sex yet, she is a bit of a prude. Just lots of making out and grinding, etc.
Then she starts to get real "busy" with work and flake a bit, I see her before thanksgiving break and she acts cold and moody but I still get kisses. I probably did some slight AFC moves at this point, but nothing major.
So a week goes by with no contact, she contacts me, and I hangout last night with her and her cute friend to get drinks and go to a concert, girl is very negative / moody again and I go for kiss when we meet up and get cheek. Since she is in a lame mood and ignore her and neg hit her while focusing on her cute friend. I was feeling good and acting real C+F, like I was the first few weeks we hung out. She claims she is tired and goes home I get the hug only, and her friend and I end up going to concert and having a good time.
Now she is going out of the country for a few weeks. At this point I am thinking she is going to drop the LJBJ bomb and I am over dealing with her. Then she contacts me a 9:00am the next morning talking about how she has a present for me that she bought over thanksgiving break and she will give it to me when she gets back.
Am I in the friend zone? She showed high to low IL, but stills keep contacting me. I think I am going to bust the ignore for a while until IL goes up.
Then she starts to get real "busy" with work and flake a bit, I see her before thanksgiving break and she acts cold and moody but I still get kisses. I probably did some slight AFC moves at this point, but nothing major.
So a week goes by with no contact, she contacts me, and I hangout last night with her and her cute friend to get drinks and go to a concert, girl is very negative / moody again and I go for kiss when we meet up and get cheek. Since she is in a lame mood and ignore her and neg hit her while focusing on her cute friend. I was feeling good and acting real C+F, like I was the first few weeks we hung out. She claims she is tired and goes home I get the hug only, and her friend and I end up going to concert and having a good time.
Now she is going out of the country for a few weeks. At this point I am thinking she is going to drop the LJBJ bomb and I am over dealing with her. Then she contacts me a 9:00am the next morning talking about how she has a present for me that she bought over thanksgiving break and she will give it to me when she gets back.
Am I in the friend zone? She showed high to low IL, but stills keep contacting me. I think I am going to bust the ignore for a while until IL goes up.