"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Record time without sex?

Romeo Sariani

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To all Djs,

I'm writing to see if there are any other people in the same boat!
Meaning, those who got sex and then....nothing, for months or even years!

My record, broken last August, was 3 years and 3 weeks without doing it.

Any aspiring record breakers?

Oh, and a piece of advice: don't ever come to Italy to get girls, you are bound to be disappointed!

Romeo
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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johnny_chase

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20 years and 6 months, hahaha! beat that
 

Centaurion

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16 years

ooh, you mean after having sex... 3months during bootcamp.
 
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Whats this? No sex for years at a time? You guys get practice abstinence? YAY!


AeQu | TaS, we are going to have to laugh at this later tonight.
 

bobbob

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Over 2 years now without some sort of money changing hands ...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Climax

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riiiiite?

Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Whats this? No sex for years at a time? You guys get practice abstinence? YAY!


AeQu | TaS, we are going to have to laugh at this later tonight.
:p :D :p *laugh* *laugh* *laugh* :p :D :p

err....

My signiture speaks for itself about the fact of not having sex for a long time;)

(read signiture below)
 

Luveno

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21 years and 3 weeks.
Then I proceeded to have sex with so many girls that year I won the Porn Star award at my college residence.
 

Delta

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if anyone can beat me, i would be DESPERATELY sad for you.

29 and a half years.

i think the cosmos felt that i would do something drastic if i hit 30 without it so it tossed me a bone.

and i had ONE time in the sack that was less than great.

now it's coming up on two more years.

delta
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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seabreeze

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It's been four and a half months since I've had sex.
SB :(
 

zerocelcius

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Well I have to explain my first time which didn't happen until I was 17. After fumbling and finally getting in I started to figure things out and just got into it when she came. She tapped out like we were wrestling and I stoped. Being nieve I thought she wanted a break. She got up and kissed me and said she was going to her bed........ ..... .... ..... but........ no.......wait........

I told her I wasn't finished and she said....... thats ok......

NO IT"S NOT OK!!!!! ... ... but yea that was my first.... and than I really just lost intrest I thought after all that work and no reward what is the point...?

I was 19 the next time I had sex and it was Amazing!!

And after that there wasn't that long of stretch between sexual encounters... infact I just got a booty call got to go...um watch movies..um...yea...

CYA!!


OHHH and good luck fella's!!!
 
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