"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Record time without sex?

Romeo Sariani

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To all Djs,

I'm writing to see if there are any other people in the same boat!
Meaning, those who got sex and then....nothing, for months or even years!

My record, broken last August, was 3 years and 3 weeks without doing it.

Any aspiring record breakers?

Oh, and a piece of advice: don't ever come to Italy to get girls, you are bound to be disappointed!

Romeo
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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johnny_chase

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20 years and 6 months, hahaha! beat that
 

Centaurion

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16 years

ooh, you mean after having sex... 3months during bootcamp.
 
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Whats this? No sex for years at a time? You guys get practice abstinence? YAY!


AeQu | TaS, we are going to have to laugh at this later tonight.
 

bobbob

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Over 2 years now without some sort of money changing hands ...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Climax

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riiiiite?

Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
Whats this? No sex for years at a time? You guys get practice abstinence? YAY!


AeQu | TaS, we are going to have to laugh at this later tonight.
:p :D :p *laugh* *laugh* *laugh* :p :D :p

err....

My signiture speaks for itself about the fact of not having sex for a long time;)

(read signiture below)
 

Luveno

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21 years and 3 weeks.
Then I proceeded to have sex with so many girls that year I won the Porn Star award at my college residence.
 

Delta

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if anyone can beat me, i would be DESPERATELY sad for you.

29 and a half years.

i think the cosmos felt that i would do something drastic if i hit 30 without it so it tossed me a bone.

and i had ONE time in the sack that was less than great.

now it's coming up on two more years.

delta
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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seabreeze

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It's been four and a half months since I've had sex.
SB :(
 

zerocelcius

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Well I have to explain my first time which didn't happen until I was 17. After fumbling and finally getting in I started to figure things out and just got into it when she came. She tapped out like we were wrestling and I stoped. Being nieve I thought she wanted a break. She got up and kissed me and said she was going to her bed........ ..... .... ..... but........ no.......wait........

I told her I wasn't finished and she said....... thats ok......

NO IT"S NOT OK!!!!! ... ... but yea that was my first.... and than I really just lost intrest I thought after all that work and no reward what is the point...?

I was 19 the next time I had sex and it was Amazing!!

And after that there wasn't that long of stretch between sexual encounters... infact I just got a booty call got to go...um watch movies..um...yea...

CYA!!


OHHH and good luck fella's!!!
 
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