"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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im talking to this girl on facebook i havent seen in a long time. she is recently divorced. is this a bad idea or should i just go for it and get her to have some fun?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spang said:
im talking to this girl on facebook i havent seen in a long time. she is recently divorced. is this a bad idea or should i just go for it and get her to have some fun?
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she is probably thirsty and wants to fvck...go pound that pvssy bro
 
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Yep, recently divorced chicks are desperate to get back in the saddle with other dycks. Go for it.
 
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If youve known her too long, you've already landed in the friendzone though... *maybe thats just me :(*
 
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Purefilth said:
If youve known her too long, you've already landed in the friendzone though... *maybe thats just me :(*
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I've been banging a chick for four months who I've known for 18 years and who got divorced six months ago.
Yes, it can happen! :D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A girl on myspace messaged me out of the blue a few years ago when I was between marriages. She had just gotten out of a 20 year marriage. After a couple of chats and a drink at a bar I invited her to my place and she pounced! She was my personal fuck toy for several months until she found a guy she ended up marrying. It was a blast and we parted on good terms. Go for it, but don't allow yourself to get emotionally invested.
 
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Three said:
A girl on myspace messaged me out of the blue a few years ago when I was between marriages. She had just gotten out of a 20 year marriage. After a couple of chats and a drink at a bar I invited her to my place and she pounced! She was my personal fuck toy for several months until she found a guy she ended up marrying. It was a blast and we parted on good terms. Go for it, but don't allow yourself to get emotionally invested.
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The poor beta provider. He probably thinks that she is an innocent angel too that was wronged by men. I think I'm gonna puke.
 
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Divorced women will grab the nearest cawk. Don't worry about friendzone. Invite her for a drink and escalate.

Now that she's back on the market, she has to prove to herself that she's still attractive AND have some guilt-free flings.
 
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