You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
she is probably thirsty and wants to fvck...go pound that pvssy brospang said:im talking to this girl on facebook i havent seen in a long time. she is recently divorced. is this a bad idea or should i just go for it and get her to have some fun?
I've been banging a chick for four months who I've known for 18 years and who got divorced six months ago.Purefilth said:If youve known her too long, you've already landed in the friendzone though... *maybe thats just me*
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The poor beta provider. He probably thinks that she is an innocent angel too that was wronged by men. I think I'm gonna puke.Three said:A girl on myspace messaged me out of the blue a few years ago when I was between marriages. She had just gotten out of a 20 year marriage. After a couple of chats and a drink at a bar I invited her to my place and she pounced! She was my personal fuck toy for several months until she found a guy she ended up marrying. It was a blast and we parted on good terms. Go for it, but don't allow yourself to get emotionally invested.