"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spang

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im talking to this girl on facebook i havent seen in a long time. she is recently divorced. is this a bad idea or should i just go for it and get her to have some fun?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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spang said:
im talking to this girl on facebook i havent seen in a long time. she is recently divorced. is this a bad idea or should i just go for it and get her to have some fun?
she is probably thirsty and wants to fvck...go pound that pvssy bro
 

Greasy Pig

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Yep, recently divorced chicks are desperate to get back in the saddle with other dycks. Go for it.
 

Purefilth

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If youve known her too long, you've already landed in the friendzone though... *maybe thats just me :(*
 

Greasy Pig

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Purefilth said:
If youve known her too long, you've already landed in the friendzone though... *maybe thats just me :(*
I've been banging a chick for four months who I've known for 18 years and who got divorced six months ago.
Yes, it can happen! :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Three

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A girl on myspace messaged me out of the blue a few years ago when I was between marriages. She had just gotten out of a 20 year marriage. After a couple of chats and a drink at a bar I invited her to my place and she pounced! She was my personal fuck toy for several months until she found a guy she ended up marrying. It was a blast and we parted on good terms. Go for it, but don't allow yourself to get emotionally invested.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Three said:
A girl on myspace messaged me out of the blue a few years ago when I was between marriages. She had just gotten out of a 20 year marriage. After a couple of chats and a drink at a bar I invited her to my place and she pounced! She was my personal fuck toy for several months until she found a guy she ended up marrying. It was a blast and we parted on good terms. Go for it, but don't allow yourself to get emotionally invested.
The poor beta provider. He probably thinks that she is an innocent angel too that was wronged by men. I think I'm gonna puke.
 

Mike32ct

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Divorced women will grab the nearest cawk. Don't worry about friendzone. Invite her for a drink and escalate.

Now that she's back on the market, she has to prove to herself that she's still attractive AND have some guilt-free flings.
 
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