"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sanyo7878

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Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
 

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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
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Can you say stalker? I knew that you could.
 
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Um... msg her, say you'd like to hang out sometime and ask for her #.
 
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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Dude, she talks to me just as much as I talk to her.
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Well perhaps you should have clarified that a bit better. You made it sound like you never talk to her, but keep track of her through "my space" and "facebook". It sounded like you didn't have contact, but were looking at her postings on these sites.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Set up an innocent meeting if you dont think she'll accept a date and then try to isolate her and lay game. The worst thing that you can do is just ignore her if you have wanted her after so long. Better to fail than regret.
 
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she has sent me a couple of messages on facebook and im on her top 8 on myspace. In a couple of weeks when school starts back i'm going to send this message... what do you guys think? pls be honest. "hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"

i'm not very keen on sending messages to ask girls out. Once again, there is like no chance i will ever see her again in person, so this is the only way.
 
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"hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"
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Sound great! Could say:

"Let's grab some dinner next week . . ." instead of asking, but yeah, basically, just ask her out to something simple.
 
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Gotta strike while the opportunity is there, my friend. She's available now. She may not be in a couple of weeks. Don't wait.
 
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