"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sanyo7878

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Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
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Can you say stalker? I knew that you could.
 
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Um... msg her, say you'd like to hang out sometime and ask for her #.
 
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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Dude, she talks to me just as much as I talk to her.
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Well perhaps you should have clarified that a bit better. You made it sound like you never talk to her, but keep track of her through "my space" and "facebook". It sounded like you didn't have contact, but were looking at her postings on these sites.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Set up an innocent meeting if you dont think she'll accept a date and then try to isolate her and lay game. The worst thing that you can do is just ignore her if you have wanted her after so long. Better to fail than regret.
 
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she has sent me a couple of messages on facebook and im on her top 8 on myspace. In a couple of weeks when school starts back i'm going to send this message... what do you guys think? pls be honest. "hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"

i'm not very keen on sending messages to ask girls out. Once again, there is like no chance i will ever see her again in person, so this is the only way.
 
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"hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"
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Sound great! Could say:

"Let's grab some dinner next week . . ." instead of asking, but yeah, basically, just ask her out to something simple.
 
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Gotta strike while the opportunity is there, my friend. She's available now. She may not be in a couple of weeks. Don't wait.
 
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