"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sanyo7878

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Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Hey guys,

I have known this girl for about 2 years. I don't really know her outside of class tho. She was engaged up until a couple of months ago. I took a couple of classes with her and sat next to her. I never see her but keep up with her occasionally on facebook and myspace. I would really like to ask her out somehow, but the only avenue to do that is through facebook or myspace. The chances of me running into her on campus are basically zero (i don't take classes on main campus anymore). There is something that caught my attention about this girl the first time I saw her but I always just treated her as a friend because she was engaged. By the way, you would have thought her x-fiance was gay if he wasn't engaged to a hot girl. Any advice?
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Can you say stalker? I knew that you could.
 
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Um... msg her, say you'd like to hang out sometime and ask for her #.
 
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Mr_knowit_all

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sanyo7878 said:
Dude, she talks to me just as much as I talk to her.
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Well perhaps you should have clarified that a bit better. You made it sound like you never talk to her, but keep track of her through "my space" and "facebook". It sounded like you didn't have contact, but were looking at her postings on these sites.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Set up an innocent meeting if you dont think she'll accept a date and then try to isolate her and lay game. The worst thing that you can do is just ignore her if you have wanted her after so long. Better to fail than regret.
 
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she has sent me a couple of messages on facebook and im on her top 8 on myspace. In a couple of weeks when school starts back i'm going to send this message... what do you guys think? pls be honest. "hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"

i'm not very keen on sending messages to ask girls out. Once again, there is like no chance i will ever see her again in person, so this is the only way.
 
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"hey julie, are you glad to be back to school? I know I sure am. Would you be up for going out to grab some dinner with me sometime next week? message me back your number and I'll give you a ring"
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Sound great! Could say:

"Let's grab some dinner next week . . ." instead of asking, but yeah, basically, just ask her out to something simple.
 
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Gotta strike while the opportunity is there, my friend. She's available now. She may not be in a couple of weeks. Don't wait.
 
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