"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Recently broke up with my GF, hows my game look?

Digidako

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What's up, happy holidays.
Dumped my borderline GF of 1.5 years yesterday morning bc she was legit crazy.
Anyways, banged another girl last night and i'm working on a few other ones:
GIRL A
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Me: "Lets go out new years"
HER: "Okay.. (1 min later)
HER: "That's an odd request.. You don't usually make plans with me"
Me: "I'll be over at 8, bring your dancing shoes" (20 mins)
HER: "Pardon" (1 min)
Me: "Those black ones you wore to the xmas party" (30 mins later)
HER: "Okay" (1 min)

Didn't respond further
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Next one, she's one of her friends.
Waitress at my work, tons of sexual tension
Every time we work she talks about sex, and I tell her if she ever wants the best orgasm ever to come by
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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AllDay85

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
 

Digidako

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
Thanks brother
No contact was initiated the moment I broke up with her, and I plan to stick with it.
Good advice
 

Lozboss

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Keep your chill. You're doing ok so far.

Don't play games or waste time on Low IL chicks. NEXT them ASAP (eg Blonde one)
 

yungballa

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I would say you doing good. Keep it up, just don't waste your time on low interest girls. Low interest girls bring nothing but stress upon you and they can cause you to overthink. I'd just say kick 'em to the curb, easy solution.

Let the ex stay in the shadows; it's good you've forgotten about her. Almost 99.9%, going back to an ex ends in nothing but TRAGEDY. Every. Single. Time. I've almost never heard a good story of when a girl and a guy get back together (unless they're on and off frequently in a short span of time and its on the guys terms and the girl has high interest in him).

I'd say you've done justice to yourself seeing all these other girls. I wish you luck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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