"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Recently broke up with my GF, hows my game look?

Digidako

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What's up, happy holidays.
Dumped my borderline GF of 1.5 years yesterday morning bc she was legit crazy.
Anyways, banged another girl last night and i'm working on a few other ones:
GIRL A
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Me: "Lets go out new years"
HER: "Okay.. (1 min later)
HER: "That's an odd request.. You don't usually make plans with me"
Me: "I'll be over at 8, bring your dancing shoes" (20 mins)
HER: "Pardon" (1 min)
Me: "Those black ones you wore to the xmas party" (30 mins later)
HER: "Okay" (1 min)

Didn't respond further
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Next one, she's one of her friends.
Waitress at my work, tons of sexual tension
Every time we work she talks about sex, and I tell her if she ever wants the best orgasm ever to come by
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AllDay85

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
 

Digidako

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
Thanks brother
No contact was initiated the moment I broke up with her, and I plan to stick with it.
Good advice
 

Lozboss

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Keep your chill. You're doing ok so far.

Don't play games or waste time on Low IL chicks. NEXT them ASAP (eg Blonde one)
 

yungballa

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I would say you doing good. Keep it up, just don't waste your time on low interest girls. Low interest girls bring nothing but stress upon you and they can cause you to overthink. I'd just say kick 'em to the curb, easy solution.

Let the ex stay in the shadows; it's good you've forgotten about her. Almost 99.9%, going back to an ex ends in nothing but TRAGEDY. Every. Single. Time. I've almost never heard a good story of when a girl and a guy get back together (unless they're on and off frequently in a short span of time and its on the guys terms and the girl has high interest in him).

I'd say you've done justice to yourself seeing all these other girls. I wish you luck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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