"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Recently broke up with my GF, hows my game look?

Digidako

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What's up, happy holidays.
Dumped my borderline GF of 1.5 years yesterday morning bc she was legit crazy.
Anyways, banged another girl last night and i'm working on a few other ones:
GIRL A
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Me: "Lets go out new years"
HER: "Okay.. (1 min later)
HER: "That's an odd request.. You don't usually make plans with me"
Me: "I'll be over at 8, bring your dancing shoes" (20 mins)
HER: "Pardon" (1 min)
Me: "Those black ones you wore to the xmas party" (30 mins later)
HER: "Okay" (1 min)

Didn't respond further
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Next one, she's one of her friends.
Waitress at my work, tons of sexual tension
Every time we work she talks about sex, and I tell her if she ever wants the best orgasm ever to come by
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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AllDay85

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
 

Digidako

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So far so good. Just remember, no contact with the ex. And don't telegraph your interactions with the new chicks. Let them tag you or better yet, let her hear through the grapevine.
Thanks brother
No contact was initiated the moment I broke up with her, and I plan to stick with it.
Good advice
 

Lozboss

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Keep your chill. You're doing ok so far.

Don't play games or waste time on Low IL chicks. NEXT them ASAP (eg Blonde one)
 

yungballa

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I would say you doing good. Keep it up, just don't waste your time on low interest girls. Low interest girls bring nothing but stress upon you and they can cause you to overthink. I'd just say kick 'em to the curb, easy solution.

Let the ex stay in the shadows; it's good you've forgotten about her. Almost 99.9%, going back to an ex ends in nothing but TRAGEDY. Every. Single. Time. I've almost never heard a good story of when a girl and a guy get back together (unless they're on and off frequently in a short span of time and its on the guys terms and the girl has high interest in him).

I'd say you've done justice to yourself seeing all these other girls. I wish you luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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