“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rebuilding your social circle in a new city

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Don Juan
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OK. New guy here. I want to start off by saying that the DJ Bible is an incredible resource and has helped me out tremendously. Since discovering the site about a year ago, I have made continuous improvement in my skills with women. Lately though, I seem to have found myself in a bit of a rut. You see, a few months ago, I moved out of my small town in favor of a much larger city, and I find myself with a greatly reduced social network. In my hometown, most of the people in my age group knew one another from high school, or from the parties we would often attend on the weekends.There were ample women in my social circle, and meeting new people was never a challenge, with all the house parties and whatnot. Now that I've left though, and started fresh, I'm finding it harder to meet new women, or anyone for that matter. Advice?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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First of all congrats of your new life on the new city.

My suggestion.

Skip the girls for a while. Just find a group of people that you can hangout on daily basis for drinking, sightseeing, getting to know new places etc. Slowly meet new people and build a circle. But if you got the chance with a girl, use it!

After that, lets say in 2-3 months later you can look for the new girls to hookup, date, etc...

Slowly you will be settled and had the social circle will be built up... Don't need to be in rush... I also moved from another country to United States 2 months ago. Now I had a 3 different social circle that I can count on.
 

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Solid advice, I think I'm gonna do another read-through on the Bible, I'm a little rusty.
 
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