"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Met this girl while she had a boyfriend (she didn’t tell me about him, and when I found out I basically told her she could contact me when she broke up).

Anyway, they broke up, now we are seeing each other and the sex is amazing. I’m talking about a propper nutcase who’ll fulfill every little fantasy of mine. She’s very unstable and will change from hot to cold pretty much as the wind changes direction. I’ve learned to cope with this by ignoring her whenever she has a “down” period.

As for me question; I’m curious if there is anything you find useful to keep things going for as long as possible, without ending up as the rebound guy who gets tossed within a month or two?

Also, I don’t care about exclusivity / not interested in her as a future girlfriend, just interested for the sex to last as long as possible.

Any experience you could share?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just keep having good sex and enjoyable times. Be the good feeling guy. But at some point she may want more or she will simply go away.
Keep spinning other plates and enjoy the time you have with her while it’s around. Try not to care too much.
As long as she’s feeling good with you, chances are she’ll stay around.
 
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What’s wrong with a couple of months? You already are the rebound guy.
 
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Ranger said:
What’s wrong with a couple of months? You already are the rebound guy.
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Exactly. OP you stated you have no long term interest in her anyway so what are you expecting here? Just enjoy the rebound sex while it lasts.
 
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